This is pretty accurate for me. An apology means nothing to me if the actions don’t back it up. I honestly want people to show effort to rectify a situation, but I sometimes can expect too much from being and how “I” feel they should repay me.
I have to get to the point of forgiving even if a person never attempts fix the situation. It’s hard. Its extremely hard for me, but it’s doable.
I’m dealing with a situation now where I’m having a hard time letting go of feeling wronged. There is nothing they can do to help me let go. It’s something I have to do on my own.